Ok...isn't what everybody's doing to me REALLY wrong and inconsiderate towards MY feelings...?

Oh my god, what sort of hellhole are you living in? I'm sorry if that came off as insensitive, but really. I'm appalled. I'm really sorry you're going through this. You don't deserve to be treated this way. It is wrong and inconsiderate, and that's putting it lightly. I just hope...you find a group of friends that can be more supportive of you. As for your family, I know it's tough, but stay true to yourself. Be strong. You are who you are. No matter what anyone else says, there is nothing to be ashamed of.